Monday, March 11, 2013

My Journey Throughout this Course


How I have believe I have improved during this course since beginning of this course has brought me to a understanding of the connection between mind, body and spirit; and the ways to reach happiness, wellness and overall optimal health in my life.  As I look at unit 3 I obviously did not do this blog correctly but I believe I can return mentally back to where I was in the beginning of this course I could correctly assess my psychological, physical and spirituality.  I would say in physical wellbeing I would have given myself around a 3, spiritually an 8 and psychologically probably a 4.  I my physical wellbeing has definitely improved to at least a 7, I base this on the weight loss of 18 pounds, and how much my blood pressure has lowered.  Spiritually I believe my score has stayed around an 8 because I believe to reach my optimal health in this area I need to get back into going to church for the fellowship I can have something I used to experience when I used to go.  Psychologically speaking I believe I have improved and I would give myself around a six, I still am dealing with some depression issues and not feeling totally connected in my mind; but with medication, counseling and prayer along with meditation and exercise I definitely see this area continuing to improve.

My Goals in psychological area is to clear my mind of unnecessary chatter, and to find a total overall sense of peace.  My goal spiritually has not improved because I wanted to start going back to church for more fellowship.  But I have continued on with my Bible reading.  Physically I have lost 18 pounds and have got my blood pressure down.  But I still need to implement exercise at least 3x a week into my life at least beginning with 10 to 20 minutes a day.  So I definitely have areas in which I can improve on; so as I continue on with my total wellness in mind, body and spirit I believe I can reach happiness, wholeness in mind, body and spirit.

My personal experience in this course has made me more aware of the connection of mind, body and spirit; as well as the steps that I can implement in my life to achieve optimal wholeness and happiness in my life.  So this has helped me develop the sense of “self” that somewhere I have lost.  And I now no that this is possible to reach the happiness in my life that I have seemed to have lost.  The only thing I felt that was difficult at times is getting myself into the state of mind to meditate and bring myself to a sense of overall peace.  I believe what I have learned throughout this course will assist others by learning th practice what I preach, and help them find happiness in mind, body and spirit.  Also I can teach them what them what they may be able to do to achieve this in their lives.

                                                            ~Kat~

                                   

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Tuesday, March 5, 2013

My Journey Through Mind, Body and Spirit


 

1.       Introduction – Why is it important for health and wellness professionals to develop psychologically, spiritually and physically?  What areas do you need to develop to achieve the goals you have set for yourself?

It is important for health and wellness professional to develop in their own lives the high standards in which they want their patients to acquire.  Mentally the professional wants to have a clear mind, void of any type of illness; and to understand the connection between the mind, body and spirit.  Spiritually connection whether it be to your God or to just a higher power brings an amount of strength in all components.  Our physical being needs to be strong and well to put all of these concepts into play.  Because by only connecting all three the mind, body and spirit can we truly reach optimal health.  The bottom point for why professionals in health and wellness to develop these steps are basically how can the aspect their clients to achieve optimal health if they do not live it their selves.  As the old say goes “practice what you preach”.  There are some areas I need to work on to develop my goals my mind needs some help; I have been struggling with massive depression for a year or so.  So trying to think positive thoughts and remembering all that I have to live for has brought me along way, to get my mind almost to a place that I can work with.  Sometimes when someone is truly depressed they seem to lose all hope along with losing their “sense’ of self which is a scary place.  I know I have come a long way from the state I was a year and a half ago.  But I have learned so much in this class to help me reach my goal of happiness something I thought I would never feel again.  I do believe mind over matter can work wonders.  Physically I am working on my overall health just in the short time of this term I have lost 18 pounds, which makes me feel great only 32 more to go and I will have lost 100 pounds in 16 months.  This surely brings one’s self-esteem level up

            II.   How have you assessed your health in each domain?  When we assess ourselves in

                   Mind, body and spirit, we need to take a true look at ourselves and be honest, only

                   by doing this can we truly know where we are in our lives; and what changes we

                   must do to achieve happiness, wholeness and complete optimal heath.  The path to

                   integral health requires that we at least become aware of the sources of needless

                   suffering, distress, and dissatisfaction and the possible source of future development

                   and flourishing (Dacher 2006).

                        I choose to use a scale when assessing my mind, body and spirit; with 1 – 10; with                        1 being the lowest level of assessing and 10 being the highest.

                        In the area of Mind I would have to give myself probably a six because I have

                        allowed the stress and negativity that fills many of our minds rule over the true

                        happiness which we can achieve in our lives.  Deep sadness can have a true affect

                        on our overall well being; and this is a place where I found myself for over a year. 

                        I truly wondered if I would ever find happiness again and began to question when

                        and how long ago it was when I had overwhelming calm peace and happiness in

 

                        my life.  In the last year and a half I have truly experience what one says when

                        “the heart has been truly broken” and means it, because I had been there.  If I had

                        done this assessment a year and a half ago or as recently as six months ago my

                        would have most likely been a 0.  But I have truly worked on digging myself out

                        of this dark place and I know “mind of matter” can have some affect for one to

                        achieve a healthy mind set.  I also believe through counseling and support groups

                        and prayer one can eventually reach happiness and optimal health.

                        As for how I would rate my body I would also probably give it a six, because

                        once again a year and a half ago I was in more pain that I had ever been in my

                        life or so I at least thought.  A year or so later I finally realized how much

                        connection there is between mind and body;  and if you don’t have control

                        of one area it affects  your entire being; simply speaking when one are hurts all

                        areas suffer.  My overall physical self has improved in the last year in a half

                        for once again at that point I would have scored extremely low.  But now I am

                        eating better and more often and I am getting out of bed more often than not so

                        I am at least getting some activity in my life back.  The over physical part               part of my life does need to be worked on to achieve optimal wellness but I believe that I

                        am on my way to obtaining this.  

                        The next and last area of my life I will assess which is the highest assessment I

                        will give is my spirituality, this level has changed quote a few times over the last

                        few decades or so; but right now I would give it a 9.  Many times in outlives we

                        tend to forget the one that is in control of our lives; and for me that is God.  I

                        think many of us have such a busy life we forget who to thank when all is going

                        well in our lives; and only call out to God when we need something or want

                        something as simple as a raise or as important as better health.  Eventually, we

                        fall into a deep state of despair, hopelessness and helplessness; and at these

                        times in our lives we reach out to the one that truly matters “Our God”.  For

                        God has reached out to me in my deepest and darkest moments of my life to

                        let me know that there is still hope that I can achieve “happiness” again in my

                        life.  This is not to say that there is not going to be rough patches which I seem to

                        experience on a regular basis for me or my family; but through my faith and

                        prayers  I can come to better understanding and a sense of peace in my life.

                        As I have assessed myself in these pages I truly believe I was open and honest on

                        where I am at this point of my life and how far I have come.  I know that I can

                        continue my journey to wellness one step at a time, even if it is just baby steps.

                        III Goal Development - Throughout this term I have thought about different

            areas of my life that need to be worked on.  Psychologically I need to get my mind in a

            better place releasing it of needless chatter, taking out the stresses out of my mind that

results in needless suffering in my life.  Also I need to find a sense of calm, a place I can  go to even if it is only in my mind to relax and get a better perspective of my life; I think this can be obtained through a cardiac work out or by journaling or both.     In my body I need to work on eating healthier and implementing exercise back into my life; in doing these things I can be on my way to a happier and healthier me.  Spiritually speaking my goal is to continue with my Bible and implementing other spiritual reading into my life.  My ultimate goal is to get back to going to church and have fellowship with other Christians.  (This has been difficult because of my work schedule and fatigue level). But if there is a will there is a way.

IV - Practices for Personal Health -   We need to implement changes in our lives to achieve what we want to improve for our overall being in health and wellness.  As for psychologically speaking for me if I would journal more often this could bring a better release of the stresses in my life and get things out that I may not want to share with others.  I think physical exercise is also great for the mind, it clears are minds of thoughts and gives us an adrenal rush that gives us a sense of a “high”, and makes us feel that we can accomplish anything we set our minds to.  Physically we can change our bodies through proper nutrition and exercise.  Spiritually we can bring ourselves to optimal wellness through prayer, reading of the word and fellowship along with meditation.

V – Commitment - I think there is a couple of different ways for myself to evaluate my progress or in my goals to optimal health in mind, body and spirit.  The first for me would be to write by goals down in a journal and also write down my monthly goals on a dry eraser board.  As I achieve my goals on a daily basis I would put a star or a smiley face on my dry eraser board along with a word of encouragement of a job well done.  After a month has passed and I have stayed close to my goals I would treat myself to something enjoyable such as a nice dinner out, a small purchase or a movie night out.   As the months go by I will continue to track how well I am doing towards my goals to optimal health and wellness in my journal.  I do have to remember to remind myself there will be days that won’t be as good as others and not to berate myself which could lead to low self –esteem and falling off the wagon so to speak.  But just pick myself up by the boot straps and begin again.  There may be many tries and failures in the process but by having a good mental state and a sense of commitment you can continue on with good health in mind, body and spirit.  I think the strategies that will best work for me will be trial by error; if one thing does not work try something else; just remember what your ultimate goal is.  Remember to have a positive state of mind and be kind to yourself throughout your achievements as well as your failures.  Once you have maintained your goals for awhile eventually they will come as second nature to you.

Before I get ready to close I would like to share a verse with everyone because it sure hit home because of the context of this term.  And what was interesting is that I ran across it in the beginning of this class.  Here it is – And one member suffers all the members suffer with it, or when one member is honored, all the others rejoice – First Corinthians 12:26 (The Bible – King James Version).

In conclusion I would like to say I have learned a lot throughout this term and I will strive to regain my health back with realizing the connection between mind, body and spirit and I will continue on with goals to reach ultimate happiness, wholeness and optimal wellness that is available to me with time, practice and patience.  Mark thanks for all the things that you made us aware of in this class and how we can obtain our goals.  You have made this journey interesting and fascinating.  I have really enjoyed this class.  May we run across each other in another term while I am here at Kaplan! 

 

References

Dacher, E. (2006).  Integral Health (The Path to Human Flourishing).  Laguna Beach, CA:  Basic Health Publications, Inc.

 

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

My Journey

Throughout this term my journey towards optimal health in mind, body and spirit has brought me to a new view of life and how we can experience happiness and wholeness.  I have enjoyed the many exercises that we have been asked to do throughout this term; so it is truly hard to pick just two.  But I will try and narrow it down.  I would start with the subtle mind practice this helped me bring my mind to a sense of clearness and helped me realize I have control over my thoughts and the unnecessary chatter that sometimes fills my mind; and the process in which I can practice to have control over my mind and thoughts.  The next one would be the loving kindness practice, this is one of my favorites because it is not just about oneself but the benefits you can express towards others and this gives you a sense of happiness to feel that you not only wish well for yourself and your loved ones but also for those that you do not know.  I hope to implement these exercises into my life as my journey carries me forward.  Thanks for reading!  ~Kat~

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Aesclepian Healing

Hi Everyone,  This week's exercise was easier for me than most, I was able to focus on my "spiritual" mentor we a sense of clam and reality.  I was surprised I was able to accopmplish this because I have a lot going on right not and my mind is full of needles chatter.  But maybe this was something I truly needed.  The quote saying "One cannot lead another where one has not gone"  has been a saying that I try to live by myself.  It's like the saying about walking so many miles in someone else's shoes.  How can we preach something we have not done, by not being in the circumstance ourselves.  How can we ask others to go where we ourselves have not traveled?  I think people in the profession of getting others well have an obligation to do as they preach; for they need to set an example to their patients a well as understanding what difficulty one may have with a certain practice or procedure.  I can implement psychological and spiritual growth in my own life by research, practice and patience and apply what I have learned in this class to eventually get me to optimal health in body, mind and spirit.  For only with understanding and practicing the steps to wholeness can we truly achieve optimal health.  Thanks for reading!  Have a great week!  ~Kat~

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Universal Loving Kindness

Hi All!  As I did the loving kindness exercise I realized how close my daily prayers are to this.  And how I wish more people could apply this to their own daily lives.  We must all remember others whether we no them or not and pray for their suffering to end, and complete wholeness, and good health, happiness.  I think if all people felt this way to all kind this world would be a better place to live in.  As I did my assessment I was not surprised about the areas in which I need to work on, but I am a work in progress, so there are always areas that can be improved upon.  For the last year I have worked more on my spiritual self more than I have in along time, and knowing because of what happened to me awhile back I would not be here if it was not for God and his loving kindness to us and how he does not want us to suffer.  I think if we could all be God like we could understand others sufferings and needs and be more compassionate and understanding.  I will always continue on with my spiritual journey.  But there is also other areas that were put on hold during my "illness", and those include my eating habits and my physical activity and healing my mind.  Because of what I have been through in this past year I know there is nothing that I am not capable of doing through God's grace and my willpower.  So to improve the areas I need to work on I can implement a better overall diet and add an exercise regime to improve my overall well being.  Thanks for reading!  Everyone have a great week!  ~Kat~

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Hi All!

The sublte mind activity for me was extremely relaxing, I did find at time my mind had a tendency to wander but I was able to bring back to my focus point.  I think this exercise was helpful to realize how often our minds have a tendeny to get off of track; but through patience and training we are able to focus are minds back to where they need to be.  This exercise also gave me time to reflect on my own issues of a over busy thinking mind and what I can do to bring it to the state I need it to be at any time or place.  I believe that the sublte mind and loving kindness exercises have a few things in common one is the concentration of breathing and the other is to clear your mind of unwanted thoughts.  They are different because the lovingkindness one has you concentrate more on feelings and how you should perceive others and how you want the best for others; whereas the subtle mind practice is more about you and how your mind works and ways to clear it of unnessary chatter.

                                                             Thanks for reading! ~Kat~

Monday, January 28, 2013

Loving Kindness

Hi All!

     This indeed was a enjoyable relaxing excercise.  I truly found it inlighting to help us understand how through a mental state of awareness can we not only send out good vibes to those we love and care about but we can also send out kindness, love and overall good health and wellness to those we do not know.  This is omething I try to do in my prayers on a everday basis, I pray for all those who need help in this world, I pray for all those who volunteer their time and I pray for all those in hospitals who need to get well.  I also pray that all who need assistance are treated with dignity and the respect that they should be.  This excercise left me with a sense of peace and understanding that we have to think about others and wish them optimal health and wellness whether we know them or not.  This is a practice I will continue working.  I believe we can train our minds to stay in a positive mind setting and through this it can benefit all we come in contact with.  We have to understand if we are feeling negative thoughts this comes across to others as well, and this could actually change how they perceive things.  I think if I try to stay in a positive state by keeping negative thoughts out of my mind I can truly be on the way to psycholocal health.

Friday, January 18, 2013

"Crime of the Century"

At first listening to this was a bit frustrating because sometimes I have a hard time with visualization; but eventually I was able connect.  I found that by focusing on each window and the color proceeding out of it along with the suggestive words to have a complete calming affect.  I was very tired when I started listening to this and I was for sure that I would fall asleep during or right after it.  But I actually feel a bit more alert and not quite ready for bed yet.  I believe I will use this excercise again in the future.